Abusive sideline behaviour towards a referee in a first XV rugby match between Kāpiti College and Mana College was the main architect behind the move to scrap all rugby in Horowhenua-Kāpiti this weekend.

The Herald understands scenes boiled over as supporters of visiting Mana College erupted when Kāpiti scored three tries in the final five minutes to secure a 25-22 win, with the game-winning try coming after the full-time siren.

There was also an alleged incident involving a coach from Mana College and the referee, which remains under investigation.

A person at the match claimed members associated with Porirua-based Mana College were not happy with the call to award the try, which led to abuse towards the unnamed official, who then had to be escorted to his car for fears of his safety.

Other supporters at the game have told the Herald the abuse from Mana College fans was “disgusting” and included references to the referee’s appearance and his skills.

Both Kāpiti College and Mana College have been approached for comment. Neither have responded to enquires from the Herald.

College Sport Wellington told Newstalk ZB’s D’Arcy Waldegrave executive director Bryan Dickinson that the two incidents led to the postponement, which they support.

“Two things happened on the weekend, within the game,” said Dickinson.

“One is around the sideline behaviour, poor language and getting stuck into the referee, and the other one is around an incident between a coach and the referee.

“The straight sideline behaviour is the principal reason why those games have been called off this weekend.

“This is a bitter pill to swallow for some of those teams,” said Dickinson. “Some haven’t played in two or three weeks because of the weather. They’re looking at about a month without a game now.”

Having threatened to cancel all senior club games just last month, Horowhenua-Kāpiti chief executive Corey Kennett made the call to postpone all rugby across all levels this weekend, because of the incident.

It’s an unprecedented stand by Horowhenua-Kāpiti, with Kennett making the initial threat after a person threatened to stab a referee in May.

Mana College’s first XV also won’t play this weekend.

“Ultimately the schools made that decision” said Dickinson. “We agree with it and support that decision, but it’s always good to get to a position where the schools are making the big decisions and taking them on themselves.

The Herald has also received reports that the issues with behaviour involving people affiliated with Mana College extends into other sports, but Dickinson denies this.

NZ Rugby general manager of community rugby Steve Lancaster backed the call from Horowhenua-Kāpiti to postpone all junior, secondary school and senior rugby fixtures this weekend.

Wellington Ruby referees association chairman Ian Dallas told Newstalk ZB that while NZ Rugby are supportive, they could do more.

“I think there comes a time when they need to lead a lot of it,” said Dallas. “They are the overriding [managers] of the game, and this is a big issue.

“Referee numbers right throughout New Zealand are down, and if they can lead it and drive that down through the provincial unions, then that’s just got to be a good thing.

“I’d like to see some more overt leadership from them in that regard.”

The Herald understands the matter of referee abuse was discussed a pre-scheduled meeting involving all the provincial unions on Thursday.