Warning: This story deals with details of sexual assault and may be distressing. 

A 13-year-old Rotorua girl befriended by a man claiming to be 16 on Snapchat was sexually groomed and raped by him. 

Details of the case involving offender Raveen Saily, 23, can now be revealed after he admitted multiple charges. 

Saily appeared in the Rotorua District Court on Wednesday and pleaded guilty to charges including grooming for sexual conduct with a young person, a representative charge of sexual connection with a young person, sexual violation by unlawful sexual connection and possessing objectionable material. 

Saily’s offending against the teen was only detected after police pulled the pair over during a routine police stop and became suspicious about their age gap. 

Court documents released to the Rotorua Daily Post outline the offending, which started as friendly chatting on the social media app, Snapchat. 

Saily added the teen on Snapchat in May 2024 and began talking with her online. He told her he was 16, and she informed him she was 13. 

They would often message on Snapchat and call each other. During their conversations, Saily told the girl he wanted to have sex with her as well as perform other sexual acts. 

The police summary said Saily “pestered” the girl to be his girlfriend and continued to ask even after she refused. 

He encouraged her to send nude images and videos of herself. When she refused, he would become aggressive. This caused her to send the images and videos out of fear, the summary said. 

Saily also sent indecent images of himself to the girl. 

After an online relationship lasting about a month, the pair met up in June last year at a service station carpark about 9pm. 

A Rotorua teen girl was raped and sexually assaulted by an older man who befriended her on the social media app, Snapchat. Photo / Getty Images 

The girl got into Saily’s car and he drove them to the sports fields at Westbrook Reserve. 

It was there he raped her, which was the first time the girl had had sexual intercourse. 

Saily also sexually assaulted the girl in other ways and at times she was crying in pain. She repeatedly told him to stop but he told her to shut up and continued to sexually offend against her. 

They drove to other locations where Saily continued to sexually assault the girl. 

In August, the police discovered the pair’s relationship by chance during a routine traffic stop just before midnight. 

Saily told police he didn’t know how old the girl was and tried to stop her from speaking to the officers, the summary said. 

Because of the significant age difference, police took the girl to her home and spoke with her mother. 

The girl later gave a full statement to police in which she disclosed Saily’s offending. 

Police found eight objectionable images and three objectionable videos on his phone when they searched his home. 

Judge Greg Hollister-Jones remanded Saily in custody to reappear for sentencing on December 17. 

Where to get help:
If it's an emergency and you feel that you or someone else is at risk, call 111.
If you've ever experienced sexual assault or abuse and need to talk to someone, contact Safe to Talk confidentially, any time 24/7:
• Call 0800 044 334
• Text 4334
• Email [email protected]
• For more info or to web chat visit safetotalk.nz
Alternatively contact your local police station - click here for a list.
If you have been sexually assaulted, remember it's not your fault.

Kelly Makiha is a senior journalist who has reported for the Rotorua Daily Post for more than 25 years, covering mainly police, court, human interest and social issues.