An Auckland software engineer who pressed record on his Google Glasses without consent while a sex worker was naked in front of him has escaped conviction, claiming he only did so to help maintain his erection.

Court documents obtained by the Herald show the man’s offending was discovered when the woman noticed him touching the upper right side of his glasses and saw a light flick on.

She immediately took the man’s glasses and told reception staff to call police.

Police seized the eyeware and confirmed they were Ray Ban Meta smart glasses, used to take photos, video and livestream.

“The victim did not give permission to be filmed,” a summary of the offending said.

When spoken to by police the man declined to comment.

The man pleaded guilty to one charge of attempting to make an intimate visual recording on June 13, 2025, at an Auckland CBD brothel.

He has interim name suppression until a hearing next month, where his application for permanent secrecy will be argued.

Speaking after the sentencing, brothel madam Mary Brennan, who is not connected to the case, was horrified by today’s decision not to convict, saying it sent a poor message to the sex industry.

“I’ve seen it happen; it causes a lot of stress and a lot of trauma and a lot of anxiety. It’s not fair that he’s gotten off.

“This is not just a sex worker issue, this is a woman issue.”

Today the man’s lawyer, Sam Teppett, argued the man should be granted a discharge without conviction because he believed the consequences of a conviction would outweigh the gravity of the offending.

The defendant wore black pants and a jumper in court and was supported by his wife.

Teppett said the court was dealing with his client’s “unsophisticated amateur attempt to secure the recording”.

If convicted, Teppett argued the man would likely lose his job in the software industry and would not be able to get another one.

He said a conviction like this in the man’s industry “simply wouldn’t fly” with current or future employers.

Teppett said there would also be immigration consequences for the man and his family that could potentially “tear apart his family unit”.

The woman noticed the man pressing the side of his Ray Ban Meta smart glasses and a light activating: Photo / David Paul Morris/Bloomberg via Getty Images

He told the court the man had no prior convictions, had shown extraordinary remorse and had donated money to a charity associated with sex workers.

Police strongly opposed the discharge without conviction application and said no affidavit from the employer had been provided.

“The employer should know about this offence,” prosecutor Bronson Burgess said.

He told the court Immigration New Zealand should be made aware of the full nature of a person’s history and not having a conviction for the offending would limit the agency’s understanding of the defendant.

To not impose a conviction, he said, would also send the wrong message on safety to sex workers.

Burgess said the man claimed he had stopped watching pornography and seeing escorts. But if he returned to visiting sex workers, “they should be entitled to know who they’re offering services to for their own safety”.

In his view, there was a “level of premeditation” to the offending as the man had taken a shower and put the glasses back on after.

Victim labels man’s action ‘dangerous and sneaky’

Judge Anna Fitzgibbon said that in the defendant’s affidavit, he claimed pressing record was a “spontaneous decision” as he was struggling to maintain an erection.

She said the document stated he made the “stupid decision” to film so he could watch it later.

“Therefore, there was an element of planning, such that you decided to record the interaction so you could view the information later.”

Judge Fitzgibbon said this premeditation and the woman’s vulnerability were both aggravating factors.

The man’s early guilty plea, remorse, willingness to attend restorative justice, donation to the New Zealand Prostitutes Collective and ability to maintain employment were mitigating factors.

She found the consequences of a conviction would be disproportionate to the offending.

“I consider a discharge without conviction is appropriate.”

However, she did order the man to pay $1000 in reparation to his victim.

Judge Fitzgibbon told the court the complainant said in her victim impact statement that the man needed to be held to account.

“I believe you are dangerous and sneaky,” the woman wrote, noting that women in his workplace and life should know about his actions.

Brennan told the Herald she felt the man’s conduct was “creepy and wrong”. She believed he should be named.

Sex workers now had to be constantly vigilant to ensure clients weren’t recording them, Brennan said.

“We’ve got no idea of the scale of this. Because it’s only those that get caught that we know about.”

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Katie Harris is an Auckland-based journalist who covers issues such as sexual assault, workplace misconduct, media, crime and justice. She joined the Herald in 2020.